During the Vamonos Experience Retreat, we didn’t just disconnect from what was familiar—we reconnected with ourselves, each other, and the kind of leadership that comes from within.
Through challenges, reflection, and unexpected moments of insight, five powerful lessons emerged—reminders that growth isn’t about control, but about trust, connection, and the willingness to step into the unknown:
1) Nature is a Mirror
Whether hiking through the mountains of Oaxaca swimming beneath waterfalls, or simply watching the sunrise over the Tlacolula Valley, we were constantly reminded that nature doesn’t force, it flows. One guest arrived feeling stuck—trapped in routines that no longer served her. But out on the trail, something shifted. As she moved through the landscape, she realized that she, too, could move forward.
✨ Takeaway
When you feel stuck, don’t push harder. Step outside. Let nature reflect what you already know deep down—you are meant to evolve.
2) Connection Creates Courage
We often think of leadership as an individual pursuit—carving our own way, making tough decisions alone. But in Oaxaca, we saw strangers become trusted allies, holding space for each other, lifting each other up, and giving one another permission to be seen.
✨ Takeaway
You don’t have to figure everything out alone. Surround yourself with people who challenge and uplift you—and let them in.
3) Disrupting Routine Unlocks Clarity
Our daily routines keep us efficient, but they can also keep us on autopilot. The Vamanos Experience was designed to shake things up! Sitting in the chaos of a bustling market or savoring a home-cooked meal prepared with deep intention, we were reminded: sometimes, you have to shake things up to remember what truly matters.
✨ Takeaway
Change your scenery if you feel disconnected from your purpose. New experiences spark new perspectives.
4) The Power of Unlearning
One of the hardest lessons we faced was letting go of what no longer serves us—whether it was the belief that we had to have all the answers, the idea that asking for help was a weakness, or the habit of putting others’ needs ahead of our own.
✨ Takeaway
Growth isn’t just about learning—it’s about unlearning. Ask yourself: What belief or habit do you need to release in order to move forward?
5) Stepping Beyond Comfort Creates Transformation
Every guest on the retreat faced a challenge—whether it was hiking through unfamiliar terrain, sharing vulnerable truths, or daring to dream bigger for their future. In every moment of discomfort, we saw the truth: confidence isn’t something you wait for. It’s something you create by taking the first step.
✨ Takeaway
The future you want won’t arrive while you sit in your comfort zone. Take the step. You are already more capable than you think.